This post is personal for me as much as it is a resource for coaching. At this point in life, I’m available for a handful of different...

This post is experimental for me. I came up with the concept, then realized it might be interesting to try to coauthor it with ChatGPT....

Emotional resilience: we need it if we’re going to fully engage with life. In the wise words of Theodore Roosevelt, “Nothing in the world...

What a thrilling experience, to feel the flood of emotions after a great first date! After we’ve just met someone we’re excited about, we...

In this post, I want to tease out the similarities and differences between the ideas of eroticism, sensuality, and sexuality. They often...

In Somatica training, we were instructed to write our own fantasy after exploring our core needs and desires. I got a little carried away...

At this point in the nationwide conversation about consent, we’ve heard this a million times: “consent is sexy!” That’s a nice ideal to...

This post is a personal share about some formative experiences I had growing up. My hope is that some people who read it will relate to...

As I’ve described in other posts, one of the unhealthy relationship tendencies I learned as a kid was to hide my emotions if I imagined...

My first experience with rope bondage was getting tied by a rigger (someone who ties) at the Bonobo Network retreat, a weekend getaway...

When people ask about my personal love language, I have a tough time answering with an answer that fits the conventional five categories....

No, that's not my legal name or my birth name, which is Ethan Holly. Sometimes, people ask "Is that your real name?" Presumptuous...

"Emotional Availability": the term gets thrown around a lot, as a desire for what we long for in a romantic partner, in lament for what's...

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." --Rumi...